
November is
Family Stories Month. Stories are such a critical piece of family history. We work
to uncover the stories of those who came before us and in doing so, we work to not
only preserve them but also to understand our part in the larger family dynamic.
It is said
that within three generations, we will have been forgotten. I remember being
acutely aware of this when my aunt passed away in 2020. She knew her
grandparents (three generations removed from me). She had talked to them, spent
time with them, listened to them, knew their personalities. She had watched
their interactions with others, understood the things that were important to
them, had heard their stories. With her gone more recent generations could only
imagine what they were like.
It was the
stories and the need to preserve the stories that started my journey into
family history. While my eyes often glazed over as the family stories were
being repeated and repeated and repeated, it was only after the storytellers
had passed away that I longed for one more listen. And this time, I would not
only pay attention, I would write them down to preserve them.
Often as we
listen to stories that have come down through the generations, we wonder how
much truth there is to them. The stories we see as folklore, perhaps. Or wishful
thinking. Stories that may have been altered in some way.
In this
post, I will look at one such story. It is not my family’s story, but that of a
prominent Brantford Family from history. A prominent Canadian family. A prominent
Scottish-Canadian family.
The Rumour:
The
Brantford Club was established in 1898 and has served Brantford businessmen
(and now women) for 125 years. Like many old mansions, it is rumoured to be
haunted. Staff and club members alike have talked about seeing a man (of
varying descriptions) in the halls and basement of the club. Digging deeper
into the rumour, I learned that there was a suicide committed at the club many
years ago. Perhaps it is the spirit of this man that continues to loiter in the
halls of the Club. Further rumour is that the victim of the suicide was the
brother of W. Ross Macdonald.
William
Ross Macdonald was the 4th son and 6th child of Scottish
born dry goods merchant, George MacDonald and his English wife, Julia Bulley. George
and Julia emigrated to Toronto in 1886 and had five children: Alex, George,
Julia, William and Norman. The family moved to Brantford when Norman was a
young boy. He attended high school in Brantford.
Both
William and his younger brother, Norman, studied law at Osgoode in Toronto and then
opened a joint law practice “MacDonald and MacDonald” in Brantford. Both men served
in the first world war. William went on to become a politician, serving as an
MP, Deputy Speaker and then Speaker of the House of Commons. He later served as
Senator and then Solicitor General of Canada. William served as Lieutenant
Governor and was made an officer in the Order of Canada.
Although he
was involved in municipal politics as an alderman, Norman preferred military
life to politics. He served the City of Branford as its Solicitor for most of
his career. In WWI, Norman was deployed to France where he served from
1915-1918. He was injured no less than four times during his time in France. He
made it to the rank of Captain. Following his return to civilian life, Norman
served as Major for the 10th Dragoons in Brantford.
Norman
offered his services when the second world war broke out. He served in the Dept
of the Judge Advocate General. He was in London during the Great Blitz and
fortunate enough to escape unscathed when his place of residence was bombed. Norman
had the unique distinction of being one of few Canadians who had been called to
the Bar in England. He was enrolled in the Inner Temple in London in 1942 while
serving there during the war.
I decided
to do some digging on this branch of the MacDonalds. Two of William’s brothers
died quite young. Brother George, a clergyman, died in 1940 at the age of 53
following complications from an appendectomy. George died in Edmonton, Alberta.
Brother
Norman died in 1947, in Brantford, at the age of 54. In retrieving his death
registration, it shows the place of his death as 98 George St Brantford. The
Brantford Club.
Cause of
death: GSW Head/Gunshot wound.
In response
to “Accident, suicide or homicide” the answer is Suicide.
Manner of injury:
Pistol.
So there we
have it. Truth to the rumour. It was the brother of W. Ross MacDonald
who had committed suicide at the Brantford Club. The date was 22 February, 1947.
Norman’s funeral was held at Alexandra Presbyterian Church. His body was cremated
and the ashes were buried at Farringdon Church Cemetery.
On Monday, February
24, the local newspaper, The Brantford Expositor, ran an article on page 2,
detailing his life of service. It does not mention his place of death or how he
died. Likely a sign of the times and wanting to retain the dignity in death
that he commanded in life.